Monday, January 11, 2010

Real Love

My head speaks a language, I dont understand

-- Robbie Williams, Feel (Escapology, 2002)

Perhaps, it is age that takes one closer to the factual realization that the going becomes easy in companionship than in the dreary ride of solitude. Or, in my case, is it the well-crafted, periodical parental nudging that is making me feel that the time has come? I wonder, both of the possibility, and my seemingly (read: certainly) succumbing to this well orchestrated pressure! Anyhow, I wouldn't want to work my poor little brain over something that I consider as eventual and certain as this!

Having said that, I must confess that I have started feeling well about this - or shall I say more receptive! For a while now, I've been daydreaming about getting married, settling down, shedding the teenager attitude which is one of being largely carefree, brash and 'for-the-day.'

Lately, when I spoke about this to a chum, pat came the question, "is something on the cards?" Nay, not so, to be honest! But perhaps it is a premonition of that thing to happen this year about which I will one day say, "That year, this day!" So, this year is decisive, for the things it will bring to my life - hopefully the good ones, that I long for!

And, now, as never before, I echo the words of Robbie Williams, etched in his hit single 'Feel,' that "I just wanna feel real love, come and hold my hand, I wanna contact the living, not sure I understand, this role I've been given........."

Yes, I just wanna feel real love!

15 comments:

  1. That is one of my fav songs. And well this year I am sure is the one for you.
    This year you will be a man( if you know what I mean)

    Shahid

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  2. best wishes towards being a complete human ;)

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  3. hmmmm...."daydreaming".... "Yes, I just wanna feel real love!" -- things, I never expected on this blog! :)

    anyway, sounds genuine...so if you wanna feel, you gotta show -from the mouth of a women -- so take it, if you wanna....... :)

    best wishes,
    devika

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  4. Ahh :) that's good to hear, so go for it!!

    Keep Rocking,
    PN.

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  5. ha! i said women -- for me...oh yes, in a way i am many women rolled into one...But I meant to say, "from the mouth of a wife" --



    wishes,
    devika

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  6. I can feel for 100% its a good year for you :-)
    Go for it Rakesh .....
    I wish you all the luck you need!!
    (@^.^@)

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  7. Good luck ... and make a good choice! Love is more important than anything else!

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  8. Hope you find it and cherish it for a long time

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  9. I am sure you'll experience real love real soon :)

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  11. LOL, you are going to search for true love now??? Y search for something that doesnt exist !! :D :D :D :D True love, according to me, is like god. Very few people has experienced it ! :D :D and we are not sure if its really there or not ! :D

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  12. Well, best luck for upcoming events in your life (even though you don't know what they are exactly :) )

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  13. Best wishes in advance. Hope you make the right choice......to be honest I think one cannot be sure whether love is real.....its a game of wild guesses....

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  14. Rak, after reading Old Monk's idea of real love...i got to say -

    If a man/woman looks for real love from the opposite sex (not affection of the blood)...the only place you can find it is in marriage -- and you will feel it in the compromises each of you would do to make the relationship be at its best --

    at first this may possibly upset you, but then you know, the love grows day by day -- reaching the stage when you just want to be doing what the other person needs...believe me, its beautiful to be married to the right person....but then you know, the right is what God has meant for us, not what we like :)

    so it goes -- Marriages are made in heaven...its for us to realise the heaven in the relationship....

    Ooo...a long blah blah! :)

    wish you all good, Rak :)
    devika

    wishes,
    devika

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